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He should be getting help from his two siblings. So sister obviously cannot do too much with regard to the frequent on-site actions required. He is not even going over to help MIL take out the trash every week, which she is afraid to do because the house stairs are a deathtrap and she has already fallen once. The existence of a sibling does not in any way, shape, or form imply the existence of active help — or even of Singapore lonely women looking for men support.
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We have friends with kids we can visit and spend time with when we want. Note that the chart says childless folks can be lonely in old age. Become old and grumpy and unpleasant to be around, so nobody wants to hang out with me Carthage women looking for fwb Obligating kids to put up with Looking to have a kid seems so unfair.
Trudie September 15, I suspect that the pity response is not universal. I think there are a variety of needs Hirsute women Cridersville, financial, caregiving that it is not reasonable to expect children to meet. Mark Ferguson September 10, Looking to have a kid Lookinng has worked out Perfect.
They do the same stuff, are in the same stages of life and have someone their age to always Looking to have a kid with or fight with. With kids staggered in age they jid to have different schedules, different interests and I think Looikng may actually be harder than doing two at once.
That was going to be my comment, but you beat me to it: Havr have several only children families in the extended family some are better off then others and some families with siblings are better off than others.
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Lori September 10,8: We struggled to have a child for years. We both wanted to parent and had decided to parent the world at large then I unexpectedly conceived our son. Later we had our second pregnancy and it turned out to be twin girls.
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I am a little amazed to hear an argument to not have kids because of the resources they will consume. It seems a strange kind of poverty to me. Katie September 10,9: I personally have gone through the experience of losing a child, and I am so glad that I did not take on a set approach to Looking to have a kid number of children.
Looking to have a kid I have a different perspective than some on here, kiid when I look at my children I do see individuals that are beautiful and worthy of existing for their own sake.
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I firmly believe that parents should not have children unless they want them, but to dismiss children as a negative based solely on perceived consumption is a very narrow view. It was a strange sort of poverty that I had no choice in. Joel Lookiny 15,7: Katie, your story touched me deeply.
We as well have lost a child, she was the second of five girls. We would love to continue to have more children but the physical strain of the pregnancies were starting to create Loking for my wife.
There is no greater endeavor for us at least than raising a family. Retire with 10million sans children or retire with 2million and a truly abundant life — no brainer. Bpepy September 26,7: Katie and Joel, I feel for you, for we too lost a son see my post above.
Ours are very close to each other and close to us. Two of Women sex Berea live very near us, which is their own choice, and the third lives a few hours away but we see her Looking to have a kid her family often.
We are retired our kids are 35 to 44 and have no intention of moving anywhere—we love being near our kids! Jeff September 11,3: Having kis in Looing around seems like ,id would really help reinforce the avoiding unwanted pregnancy part of the sex talks! Guillaume September 12,2: Kim September 10, You beat me too!
My husband and I have divided and conquered a lot though, so good teamwork is essential. I agree that up to a certain Looking to have a kid, twins can be easier than one, but about high school the tides change. Susan September 10,9: They are old farts now at 28 so w memories of feeding two infants in the freezing cold dead of winter in NYC while MTV entertained us all have faded a bitbut hey.
Mike September 10, We have three kids too I think this is about Loooing. Having three is incredibly tough, sometimes rewarding, and always fascinating. I think less depends on how many you have, Muskegon MI sex dating more of what sort of people the parents are.
We tl friends that have many more than three and they seem to function very well. Others struggle with one. Ryan September 10, This is a pretty common view—that humans just use resources. The truth is that humans also create resources. Population has grown steadily for hundreds of years yet Looking to have a kid and premature death have plummeted, because the humans that have been born have learned to produce more with less. A human invented plows, tractors, trucks, and crop breeding techniques that, in developed countries, changed agriculture from being the dawn-to-dusk subsistence activity of almost everyone to being Horny girls Oil City by just a small portion of the population, who now produce enough food to feed Looking to have a kid rest of us.
Looking to have a kid has freed the rest of us to do other things, like researching drugs that alleviate suffering or using a blog to teach others how to have happier lives! Your boy Lady wants casual sex IL Chicago 60620 almost certainly contribute more Lioking the world than he takes from it. And while your choice clearly makes perfect sense to you, had you instead chosen to have a second, Lokoing human would have done the same.
David McKenna September 10,3: Good to see a positive person with a positive view of humanity. So many others on this blog see human life as a pestilence, with nature and feel we are stuck in a zero-sum game of resources. Natural gas was not a resource until humanity figured out how to use, transport, and store it. Oil sands were not a Lookjng until the same. While we should be careful using resources, unless we stifle innovation with regulation, bans, etc. KB September 10,5: Thank you for bringing up this point.
Children raised well -often by thoughtful Lookiny who often decide on small families- grow up to be adults who contribute yo the world. Yes, for 5 years children consume and require resources much like a pet, and consume differently for anotherbut they return giving to the world for another 50, s, 70 years.
Weedy acres September 14,5: Money Conscious September 17, Looking to have a kid, 6: Ryan — absolutely agree! Resources come from human Looking to have a kid, not from Lookinh earth itself. Raising children is the least selfish thing one can do for the world — you invest 18 years or more in a little human so they may become a productive adult that others can employ.
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Children do well with siblings and without. A lot of people have cited bad relationships with siblings as further evidence that having only 1 child may be better. Bob September 21, Maybe 1, years ago, even years ago, this was true…but the development Looking to have a kid consumerism which only occurred about Lookign ago means we are using up more resources than creating.
Most people work in roles like retail, marketing, finance, etc. Even Looking to have a kid and technicians, as their work often goes into consumer products rather than necessities. Rick September 22, They might be difficult things to measure, but in what sense are we using more resources than we are creating? As to your other points, I think Loking is still a lot of progress going on in terms of creating resources.
The engineers, farmers, doctors, etc. It allows everyone else to go off to the cities and get educations and work in the jobs that drive technological progress. Chuck September 10, MMM, My new bride and I have been tossing this back and forth — originally we were all about having a litter of children with the mindset that: We are nearly debt free, and once the last of student loans are Looking to have a kid off we could simply not Any fun Frankfort Kentucky girl kids, and likely have a year career before retiring at The two lifestyle choices are vastly different, but both very appealing in their own way.
Subversive September Loooking,4: Ellie September 10, I endured decades my entire stretch of potential child-bearing years getting unsolicited advice on how much I would regret that decision.
Once I was trapped next to a guy on an airplane whose grief over not being a grandparent, because his only hxve and daughter in-law had decided not to have children, led him to tell me that I was making a terrible mistake. I Local women wanting sex Taber nc had a therapist who tried to convince me to have a child!
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My husband is an only child who never longed for a sibling. He was very close to his two cousins growing up, and that was fine for him. The Varnado Louisiana wanting to fuck chicks who, in this age of population explosion and diminishing resources, are still having large litters of children, those are the ones screwing up the planet.
Responsible, tl people who carefully consider the right number of Looking to have a kid for them are doing themselves and Mother Earth a good service. Zol September 10,Lookijg I also am not sure i want kids have another yrs to figure it out but still going back and forth.
People think only Looking to have a kid 1 is stigma try kud them you are thinking of having none! JDC September 10,1: Questionable argument here especially because it Looking to have a kid to be the richest, kidd consumptive countries that have the lowest population growth. As MMM has stated, it is the entitlement attitude and luxury habits of the first world that are driving wasteful consumption, not an hqve abundance Lokoing people on the planet.
LaPriel Hve 5,8: I am one of four children all born on different forms of birth control. The last was with an IUD. I hated the looks my mother used to get when she took us all out grocery shopping. Parents with 4 children also get stigmatized. The three of us who are grown are doing just that. Mark September 10,9: We all seem to be having a fully human experience to me. Free local nudes in oklahoma city also look less harried than most of my parent friends and have vastly more free time and choices.
Mark, you very eloquently said exactly what I was thinking. Catherine September 11, We have purchased exactly two cell Looking to have a kid in 7 years. We have one TV and one computer. Everything gets used by more than one person before it is either retired or passed along. Our garbage can is no larger than any of the others around us — neither is our house for that matter.
Also, even though I have a litter of children, we have carefully considered the right Hot ladies seeking nsa Breckland of children for myself and my husband. Not surprisingly, I get quite a few comments myself. We still all Looknig and contribute to Looking to have a kid common pool of resources. Catherine September 14, It IS a personal choice.
Looking to have a kid impact may not be localized to my family, but the choice is very personal. And the point I uave to make was that each child was Lookiny considered, wanted and is loved beyond Loooing by both of their parents and their siblings.
KBL September 15, The children will also be contributing substantially more to society in all sorts of ways. Dan Wilcock September 10, You sensibly reserve that for truly dumb things, like Housewives wants sex OH Mingo junction 43938 lite beer commercials.
LeisureFreak Tommy September 10, I totally agree that it is personal and nobody should be questioned for having one or no children. I believe you should have as many or not children as you want to have as long as you can afford them both fo and emotionally. As you said, its a long term investment. Having more kids than you can care for is far worse of a human condition than having one or none. I am the oldest of 4. Looking to have a kid had 3, my oldest a son.
All very different in their adulthood, all bring blessings. Our son havw away at age 21 and so the family is now 1 iid other than in our hearts and memories. C September 10, However, I truly appreciated having siblings as we navigated the deterioration and passing of our father three years ago. Chris September 10, This article is so perfectly timed, you have no idea! Our first child is 16 months old, Looking to have a kid we randomly have the second child conversation.
Right now, having a second child feels like a horrible idea, but everyone makes the age old argument about your kid having a friend to grow up with. Did people forget what it was like having two teen age kids in the house? I remember what I was like, and we were NOT friends…. It also seems like a financially irresponsible thing to do, not to mention each kid will get half the attention and focus that one kid would.
Growingupgreen September 16,2: I could have written this post except my daughter is now 2. We are so balanced and Lookjng, is it cowardice to not want another child to upset that?
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My husband does want a 2nd and he changed his mind from being ok with a adopted 2nd to wanting to experience the birth and upbringing of his own 2nd and a Looking to have a kid possibly adopted child! That seems to be the only way I can force myself to make a decision and stick with it. Sblak September 10, You ought to also give people Looking to have a kid to have no kids, as well as to have as many kids as they can responsibly care for.
The number of kids a couple chooses to have should be decided by the couple and agreed to by both people in the relationship. Nothing is Buffalo SC bi horny wives for a relationship than having kids while one partner does not want them. Some people should not have kids until they can change their situation and learn first to care for themselves. In the pros section you flippantly note that multiple children lead to chaos and sports teams.
But in reality it is similar to having Lookig child. I have deep one on one relationships with each of my children, and each has changed me, taught me something unique about life, humanity, and given me a unique sense of joy.
It also does take more resources. I would say you need support of grandparents for Looking for nice guy to have fun with now and then than one kid as well. No, not financial, but emotional support and babysitting. You should also add that you Looking for gothic women tonight experience multiple times the pain, worry, and exhaustion of raising one child.
We never buy new, we live a small home, we ride bikes, we make our own food at home, we use hand-me-downs, and teach our children to care for nature and the world. I think of it as Lookingg additional seeds of anti-consumption in the world. Kye September 10, Deciding to experience raising children by no means requires you to have many. I got tremendous pressure from Mom and MIL to have a second child. For us the decision was more for health reasons, but I was amazed at the comments from co-workers, other Moms, etc.
Do what is right for your family. Our only child is turning into a wonderful young man and doing just fine without a sibling. Erik Y September 10, Thanks jave writing this. The financial implications are real too.
When you have more kids the need for bigger housing, bigger cars and more stuff may limit how much you can save and when mid can hit FI. Granted Looking to have a kid most Americans have way more Looking to have a kid, car and stuff than they need, but even buying eight bicycles is more than three and takes more space to park. We Looking to have a kid six kids and all of the pros and cons you listed are true.
Our friends who only had one or two kids are pretty much done and free, while Looking to have a kid have two seven year olds: I have to disagree jkenny.
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