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But I didn't do that 12 years ago. I was caught in a dysfunctional sexual limbo that made no sense.
Married wm seeking discrete affair course, things have changed and I'm a happy homosexual now. I've also joined the ranks of the "happily divorced" and I'm no longer messing around with other married men, disengaging from the experience and pretending to be something I'm not.
However, contrary to popular belief, there are more "married men looking for married men" out there.
Shocking as it may seem to some of you, this phenomena is not new. Of course, I have no cold hard facts to prove this statement, but I don't need them.Woman Looking Hot Sex Mayhill New Mexico
All I need is a computer, an Internet connection and an hour of free time. There are numerous affajr where "married men for married men" lurk.
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This leads to people not living their authentic lives, Married wm seeking discrete affair divorces, children who question their own sexuality after a parent comes out and numerous other problems, not to mention unhappy endings not the massage kind. Which leads me to wonder why, after I came out of the closet, I would never date a married man:.
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What would my wife think? And if you don't know who that is, you should be turning 50 shades of red right now in shame! Married men who are just having sex with men often don't think clearly.
Okay, maybe all men who are playing around Married wm seeking discrete affair the side are thinking with their penises instead of their heads.
Not sure if it's the affsir of the adventure or what, but I've encountered—both in my personal Looking for bigirl 1825 and among the clients I've worked with—married men who take sexual risks, have sex more frequently than the average gay man and seem to see themselves as invincible because they're "married and only playing with other married men.
I've probably said enough to turn many "married and straight but having sex with men" types away from ever working with me, if they ever finally decide to come out of the closet. If that's the case, I find that sad.
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After all, who better to help someone finally find his truth than a man who has been on this journey himself? I'm your ally, your confidant, your brother.
I'm neither your enemy nor your tattletale. Married wm seeking discrete affair, people tend to seek help from those who haven't traveled a similar path.
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