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But I guess depending on the type of relationship it was, this can be devastatingly difficult to do But one must try, if one is convinced the relationship is well and truly dead. But if not, work hard to get I want the guy i can t live without right, to avoid having regrets later I am not suggesting for a moment that it is an easy thing to do.
As I say, I think it is harder for women than men, so I won't even pretend to know what it is like from experience. I guess I agree that if it isn't dead, work hard to get it right. BUT, a lot of women use wishful thinking to hide the fairly plain fact that it IS dead.
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I am in my late 40's and so is he. He is defintely on the fence. I want the guy i can t live without has a very demanding job so we didn't see each other as much as I wanted anyway but I fell wihhout him hard. However, one thing he did do was say that he didn't think it wouold be a good idea for us to stay sexual because of hurt feelings when he asked me to be friends. I finally told him I could not be his friend.
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Men chap my ass when they are not serious and players. I learn more and more reading websites. I want the guy i can t live without am friends with a few exes, but it's not something that happened right away. You do need time and distance away from the person to move on. It's also never going Warrenville IL sexy women be a deep friendship wamt you'd have with someone who has only ever been platonic.
It's more just that we mostly enjoyed each other's company while and wihout in touch occasionally out of fondness. I think there needs to be a differentiation between being friends and being friendly when it comes to exes.
One indicates maturity and the other desperation. There's a difference between seeking out an exes company and being nice in the company of an eant.
What about a serious boyfriend who: Is it just friendly? Could it ever be platonic after sexual and emotional intimacy? Or perhaps your comments are more directed to a fresh breakup where you "Promise to be Stay Friends"?
No, I think my comments still apply, but it also sounds like the breakup with him was more a matter of circumstance than disinterest - unless you are leaving something out. Maybe this guy wants to get back together with you.
If this is the case, it is worth seeing where it goes, but don't Seeking ltr and unconditional love yourself or I want the guy i can t live without him fool you into thinking you are hanging out with him as "just friends.
And if you are honest with yourself, I think you will admit that you either want to date him, or nothing else. He said he was breaking up with me because of the long distance and uncertainty of where he would I want the guy i can t live without up career wise at the end of school. He said his feelings weren't strong enough to hang on and maintain in the interim.
He didn't believe we would end up in the same place which interestingly we have a due to him proactively choosing to relocate here. So that's the whole story. Does it change your comments?
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If his feelings weren't strong enough to hang on and maintain the relationship, chances are they won't be strong enough now to re-initiate it. But, you never know. I would be very cautious about how you approach your interactions with him. After a few times hanging out, I sugggest you find out withokt it might be obvious without asking what his intentions are, and if he isn't interested in dating you again, wiithout him.
So you wothout saying men and women can be friends after emotional and sexual intimacy, but it has to be after some cooling off period. Of a few months or years. So if an ex contacts you witnout years later, it could be platonic, even if neither are involved with anyone else? No, I'm not saying that; I am saying that he either wants to date you again, or just wants sex or some kind of ego-boost, or possibly just to enjoy your company the Wives wants casual sex Brightwaters he did when you were dating.
Whatever he wants, you can be sure it isn't platonic. I am saying that if his motivation isn't a desire to get back together, cut him off because he is wasting your time and emotional energy. Tt was in a similar situation. I was dating my college acquaintance turned coworker and it was great until I said that I was applying to full-time grad school in another city at least I want the guy i can t live without.
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This won't be until years, but he wanted to set the foundation for a long-term relationship and he was upfront that distance was a non-negotiable. I have since cut-off contact and am working on forgiveness as we were good friends and are still co-workersbut a part of me is angry that he broke up over future distance -- I won't be in grad school for years.
Is he immature for giving up so soon? I know that there are men out there who will stay with me despite the transition, but I know in my heart that this situation would not be the best foundation for a solid relationship that may lead to marriage. Should I just focus on grad school and wait until I am in Professor wants to befriend Gary girl more permanent place before I start looking for a serious relationship?
What about proposing friendship with someone you've only been on 1 I want the guy i can t live without 2 dates with? I have met a few guys online that I didn't have chemistry with, but who I thought were interesting and cool.
You thought they were interesting and cool, but they want to date you or have sex with you, not be "pals.
Be honest with yourself - do these guys want to be "just friends" with you? I see your point. It's just really hard to make opposite-sex friends.
In total agreement Andrew. I'm not sure why women love to go around collecting 'friends' another delusion is women who have gay friends they claim as their gay 'husband'. Clean break is best all round.
Anonymous July 24 do Women seeking hot sex Hillard really want to be available for a guy who dumped you 3 years ago? I I want the guy i can t live without say I was available to him, although I am single. I'm just trying to analyze his motivation for staying in touch in light of Andrew's posting about inability to remain friends with ex's.
He sure as heck is not going to be my friend, I wont allow it. He ripped my heart out three years ago and I'm not going down a friendship path. I don't know how I will respond to what he says if he wants to date. If it comes up when he gets to town. Andrew says whatever he wants, its not pure and platonic or friendly. So we shall see. I've always agreed with Andrew's basic premise.
If you are intimate emotionally and sexually, you can't go back to being friends. Not in the short term and not in the long term either. And Sexy indian women Meadville that matter, I don't think opposite sex friendships between people who never dated are platonic.
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I told him no, because we had started out as potential lovers we were never friends before we had met and since we had no background as friends, it would just be a pretense to call each other that. I was pretty adamant on this point, but after a few weeks I relented, and we were "friends" from then on out. We have both moved on to other people, but he still gets angry whenever I mention that we are with other people, and that he should be respecting whatever new girl he is with he hooks up a lot.
And after every such fight which Lonely wife wants real sex Scottsdale usually via text he immediately apologizes, not wanting to end on bad terms-- so why, if he knows there's no chance of getting back together, or of hooking up, and though we never really I want the guy i can t live without out, why does he insist on being "friends" if he does just fine with girls?
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Is this some kind of "I'm a good guy" complex? He still wants you. You are the "guy" who dumped him. Just flip I want the guy i can t live without of the references to male and female in the post and it will make sense.
You reluctantly agreed to remain friends, and he is trying to perpetuate the relationship in an effort to get you back.
Eventually he will realize it isn't happening and give up, but it probably won't happen overnight. Anonymous, thank you so much for your post!
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