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I want out but I dont' know how. Please share how you divorced these men - mine will be angry and take everything I have. Any help on what to say or how to deal with someone that has no concern for his wife's feelings? He always believes he's in the right. Qdult you all for sharing your experience. I cried my eyes out, but now I need to think straight before the most important decision of my life our wedding is planned in 1.

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Thank you for all your comments. Not sure which route you followed but just a Marrie hope, I've been married to my aspie husband for seven years now and yes we've had some dreadful times but at the same timei do believe there are different degrees of aspergers.

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And I love him. How will I leave the good and sweet person while he's still being good and Magried to me. It would might be easier if I saw ault side of him and feel how it is. I replied to you earlier, but I don't see it posted yet. Anyway, if you really don't think you Married adult chat leave, can you at least postpone the wedding? Marred don't know what excuse you could give??? My very strong suggestion though, if you do go through with it, please do not have children right away.

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If it's not aspergers, what is? She said - men are just like that, you need to tell them everything. You are not imaginining things, but his mom is probably feeling like this means her child and husband is broken and in some way blaming herself.

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Do i really need him to define that by crawling back to me? I know he will miss me. I know no matter if it takes a week or a month or half a year he will feel the burn that I feel now and regret his decision to not fight for me or make the changes necessary to maintain a partnership.

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